What Should I Expect
The obvious questions are what should I expect and how fast should I expect results?
The answer is those are the wrong questions. Let’s look at the word “Expect.” It comes from the Latin word expectare meaning to wait or defer action. I hate to break this to you but waiting will not create change. Waiting or deferring action is what you have been doing all of your life so doing more of the same now won’t bring you change.
The right question to ask is what do you intend for yourself? Are you willing to look at yourself in the mirror and really look, not just what you can see from the outside, but what lurks underneath? Part of creating change is putting that intention out into the universe. Saying what it is you want to be and how you want to change is the first step in making that happen. So the first step is taking ownership of your life and understanding that you are an agent of change.
How fast can I change? That depends on the work that you are willing to put in. I am here to be your coach, your guide, your friend and confidant. But it is not my place to fix you or change you for I accept you for who you are. Instead, I will offer concepts and tools that you can use to make the changes for which you intend. Your destiny rests with you.
Yeah, but how fast will I get there if I work really hard and am committed? This is not a competition nor is there a finish line. Evolution is infinite and you can stop along the path whenever you see fit. This is not about speed but about growth and change. You’ll know when you are changing and you will feel the power that comes with this change and so will those around you. How far you journey resides in you.
Rome wasn’t built in a day. So let’s not get ahead of ourselves. Focus simply on taking the first step. For as Neil Armstrong said aptly in 1969 when he landed on the moon, “That’s one small step for man, one giant leap for mankind.” Make that first giant leap today!!
